Year End Learnings: What Life and Animals Reflected Back to Me
This year asked me to pay closer attention. Not just to others — but to myself. And interestingly, animals made that easier. They don’t pretend or overthink. They reflect reality as it is. Here are the lessons that stayed: I realized that connection gets stronger when I stop trying to multitask through important moments. Animals notice when our attention is divided. They disconnect when we disconnect. That made me rethink how often I show up halfway in my own life. I learned that discomfort is communication too. Animals show stress immediately — pacing, avoiding, pausing. They don’t wait for things to get unbearable. I’ve spent too many years ignoring early signals in myself. Now I’m learning to respond sooner. Trust became another theme. Animals don’t give trust just because we want it. They watch consistency first. This year taught me to hold myself accountable — to match my promises with my actions. I also learned that we don’t need to be “on” all the time. Animals rest without guil...